Saturday, April 11, 2009
in life, one should be thankful for having family, friends and loved ones.
with no exceptions, i am very thankful that i have a loving family and a group of wonderful friends. and when one grew up, he/she find love. someone who is not family. his/her love may or may not be a friend whom he/she already knew.
the most magical thing is that everyone's special loved one became a very important part of his/her life. family memebers have been looking after u from the very day you gave your first cry. they see your first smile, hear your first word and watch you grow up.
Friends. Some you knew when u'r still a child who always have ice cream stains all over your mouth and clothes. Some whom you found while in school when you are a rebellious young teenager. And a bunchful whom one might meet along the way in all sorts of ways and form in later part of life. As we grow up, we meet lots of people and become fast friends.And how one will say if someone is a friend or an aquittance or a very close friend is really up to their very own judgement. But I believe one can only find true friends only after years of knowing them. And sometimes you cant even find a true friend in someone although u know him/her for ages.
Love, a perculiar thing.
not at all like the above mentioned - family and friends. One might have known his/her loved one for a very long time or a very short time. We tell our family everything because they are the ones who watched us grew up. We tell our friends everything because we have known them for a long time. So if time is a factor, that prove our ability to open up to someone, it definitely doesnt reflect same in love. In a relationship, we want to tell them everything about ourselves. And it's normally because we love them. We want to share our ideas, life, experiences and past with them.
Finding love unexpectedly. I met Alex under unexpected circumstances. I didnt search frantically for love. But I found him.
From the first week we met, we find out more about each other from each other and establish a special friendship. Then we feel something special for each other and fell in love. We learn more about each other while living together. Living with him allow me to find out stuffs which I guess even he doesnt realise himself. I found out he always choose to sleep on the side which is closer to the door. I found out he doesnt snore. Who is able to know if he/she snore or not?! I found out he drinks gallons of water before bedtime. And he always avoid cooking meat or fish or prawns. It may takes him only abt 7 mins in the shower, but he can spend up to 20 mins cleaning his set of smilies. He always lift the toilet seat up after use. He love having ice creams, cookies and little sweeties in his kitchen.
But he sometimes does things out of what i expected. Like ... i found bottles of coke in his fridge. After 3 years, 1 month and one week excatly of being in a relationship with Alex, i am able to quickly say why i love him more and more each day. Is because of his gentlness everytime when i threw a temper. Is his laidback character which let me feel relax. Is his sweetness of trying to make me as happy as possible. Is his patience with me, wanting to bring me to the best i can be. He is my boyfriend, my best friend, my instant perk me up, and my support.
Baby, thank you for sharing my life with me. thank you for showering me with all your love and bringing so much laughters in my life. you not only gave me a good weekend last week. you also showed me how much we'r in love. and u make me believe that our relationship will work no matter how hard it gets. because we got each other.
Just The Girl @
1:17 AM
Wednesday, April 08, 2009
havent been blogging for ages!!
but i really want to pen this down. I had the most amazing weekend in my life recently. Baby arranged for me to go see him. And spontanteously, I agreed. and off I set off to London.
First thing i arrived in London, was to jet off to baby's and hugged him. he hugged me real tight too. I can feel his love for me. Baby planned a big weekend. and we did a lot. Thank you, baby for this amazing weekend.
Just The Girl @
11:32 PM
the most magical thing is that everyone's special loved one became a very important part of his/her life. family memebers have been looking after u from the very day you gave your first cry. they see your first smile, hear your first word and watch you grow up. 
Friends. Some you knew when u'r still a child who always have ice cream stains all over your mouth and clothes. Some whom you found while in school when you are a rebellious young teenager. And a bunchful whom one might meet along the way in all sorts of ways and form in later part of life. As we grow up, we meet lots of people and become fast friends.And how one will say if someone is a friend or an aquittance or a very close friend is really up to their very own judgement. But I believe one can only find true friends only after years of knowing them. And sometimes you cant even find a true friend in someone although u know him/her for ages.
not at all like the above mentioned - family and friends. One might have known his/her loved one for a very long time or a very short time. We tell our family everything because they are the ones who watched us grew up. We tell our friends everything because we have known them for a long time. So if time is a factor, that prove our ability to open up to someone, it definitely doesnt reflect same in love. In a relationship, we want to tell them everything about ourselves. And it's normally because we love them. We want to share our ideas, life, experiences and past with them. 
