Thursday, May 29, 2008
It's my turn! i was tagged by maine maine to do this. here goes..
a) people who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs & NO CHANGING OF QUESTION. ANSWER IT TRULY.
b) tag people to do this quiz & those who are tagged cannot refuse. these people must state who they were tagged by & cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by. continue this game by sending it to other people.
#1 if your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be?
- asked him why he did it. and probably cry myself to sleep every night. yar, i am useless..
#2 if you can have a dream to come true, what would it be?
- alex and me to be healthy and happy together.
#3 what will your dream wedding be like?
- wedding at the beach.
#4 are you confused as to what lies ahead of you?
- no. what's there to be confused about? Now i am really confused!
#5 what's your ideal lover like?
- Tall, dark, humourous and fun to be with! that's what ally is!
#6 which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone? -
- loved by someone.
#7 how long do you intend to wait for someone u really love?
- Very loooonnng. i know i am so not realistic.
#8 if the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
- pray EVERYDAY and hope that they split up quickly.
#9 is there anything that has made you unhappy these days?
- SECRET LAR!
#10 is being tagged fun?
- fun when i have nothing to do.
#11 how do you see yourself in ten years time?
- married with at least 2 kids.
#12 who are currently the most important people to you?
- my family, Alex and my friends.
#13 what kind of person do you think the person who tagged you is?
- she is very SHIRMAINE! can u imagine she did not changed a bit since sec sch? she's still the same old maine i knew 10 years back.
#14 would you rather be single & rich or married but poor?
- single and rich. but i got to have a bf and a couple of kids.
#15 what's the first thing you do every morning?
- Off the aircon + fan.
#16 would you give all in a relationship?
- of course. i am unrealistic and stupid, remember?
#17 if you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick?
- the one i prefer more.
#18 what type of friends do you like?
- true and fun people.
#19 what type of friends do you dislike?
- selfish bastards.
#20 how many people you think they fall in love with you now?
- how would i know.
okay, the 5 people please do this quiz :)
- Alice
- Jerlyn
- Reyne
- Ashley
- Aini
(sorry girls. but i only have you girls reading my security tight blog!)
Just The Girl @
1:22 PM
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
i heard the most touching thing from alice recently.
here goes..
in the sichuan big earthquake disaster, a lady was found buried under the ruins.
as the rescuers kept digging, they found a baby. the lady had used herself to protect her baby from the falling building. and they found a mobile phone on the baby. on the mobile phone, they found a message that goes like this ..
"My dearest child, if you'r still alive to read this, please remember mummy loves you."
Parental love is the most precious and noble love in this whole wide world.
Just The Girl @
11:36 PM
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Hang out @ emily hill with sheila, bestie (forest) and colin.
My butt sticking out looks strange, i know. but this is the only pic of all of us together.
Clubbing - at St James with girls
before that, dinner @ Marche. we queue heck long for it.
We'r the milkmaids!
Shirmaine killed moo moo!!!
everyone is particularly gentle with moo moo's broken horn.
and then we realised that there's 3 other moo moo in front which is not broken. silly us.
at St James..
so bored just sitting around at the beginning as the place is stll pretty empty. so sheila and me entertained ourselves by camwhoring with everything we can find.
not much pictures on the rest of the night because we were having too much fun!
it was super funny when we went to boilers and did the turn around dance.
can't explain what is the turn around dance. but it make us laugh bloody hard.
i am so lousy at ending. so i am going to end this entry abrutly here.
Just The Girl @
2:10 PM
with love.. from handsome.
Just The Girl @
1:50 PM
Monday, May 19, 2008
Long distance relationship.
i dont know if below really work. all i know is i miss you deeply and wish to be in your arms again..
+++QUOTED FROM BBC+++
Making it work
The key to making long-distance relationships work is to talk honestly and openly about how you feel. Couples often fall into one of the following traps:
Let's pretend it's OK - if asked how you are, you both say "I'm OK, everything's fine." Underneath you're both lonely, but are too scared to say in case the other person doesn't understand.
It's all right for you - you try to be nice when you talk, but the resentment slips out. You're both convinced your partner's having an easier time of it than you. Underneath you both want reassurance, but fear you'll be rejected.
Be honest
Share your feelings about the separation - both the positives and the negatives. This will give you the opportunity to really understand each other and give the support and reassurance you both need.
Talk about your resentment at the situation rather than at each other and look forward to the time when you're next together.
Keep communicating
Staying in touch regularly is the key to surviving a long-distance relationship.
Use a variety of ways of communicating - email, telephone, text message, letter, etc.
Send little gifts - to show how often you think of each other.
Make some surprise calls - make the odd call just to say "I love you."
Send regular pictures - this will help your partner keep a visual record of what you're up to.
Keep a diary - then share it with your partner each time you meet.
Beware the reunion anticlimax
When you get to see each other again, chances are both of you will have built up great expectations of how fantastic your reunion is going to be. However, the reality often doesn't match up to the fantasy.
Many couples feel disappointed and frustrated when things aren't as they'd hoped. You may also find that rather than making love all day there are awkward silences or even arguments.
You can prevent this by making sure you've talked about how you want the reunion to be and recognising that the anticipation is often better than the consummation! And remember, it may take time to get used to being around each other again.
Absence can make the heart grow fonder when you use the time to show your partner how much they mean to you.
+++UNQUOTE+++
alex, you really mean a lot to me.
Just The Girl @
10:48 PM
Thursday, May 15, 2008
have you ever lose someone who had loved and dote on you since you were young?
i remember my yaya who had taken care of me since my sis and i were toddlers..
but he passed away one day.. when i was all grown up.
for the last 10 years before he passed away, I was so busy growing up, living my own life, seeing little of him.. until when i last saw him... he's weak and aged so much.
till i hear of the news.
watching this makes me cry so much. hard. everytime i watched it.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=lbcltLf2VHo
There's nothing i wouldnt do to hear his voice again..
Just The Girl @
12:09 AM
