The Girl ;

# Bell
# long straight hair
# fair
# asian eyes


Indulges In ;

# my him
# my girls
# work
# roses and tulips
# apples

Detests On ;

# crooks
# butter and cheese
# hot weather


Wishes On ;

#earning more $
#spend lots of time with him
#holidays
#more shopping
#long soft curls

Her Exits;

Alex
Alice
Aini
Ashley
Bell (Old)
Bell (Gallery)
Jennet
Jerlyn
Shirmaine

The Memories ;

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January 2007
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Special Tnks to: Blogger, Blogskins

Friday, March 31, 2006

fallen in love wif tees from this shop..

see, it's the best all girls surf shop in the world! well, at least that's what it says on its bag. the tops there are really nice! am not a beach girl but the tees there just bowl me over..

Just The Girl @ 4:20 PM

Thursday, March 30, 2006


every thursday is bonding day!
(no idea why aini stand so far away. my hand too short, cannot reach her)
(this is better)
thursday = golf lessons.
which means aini + sharon + kelly + joe + me will be heading together for golf lessons after work. so we had dinner together, share a cab and even had supper together. so on a thursday night, i am stuck wif them till 11 plus for the next 10 weeks. or maybe even more if we choose to continue our lesson after completing the beginners course.
in the cab heading for keppel country club..

i've got aini and kelly's picture in the cab too.. but they might kill me if i post that one.. so better not.

ok, coach says we need to have gloves so we bought a pair each from the club where we are learning golf.. and aini found out her 2 hands are of different size.. one is bigger than the other (one is S and another is XS).. mine is the same (both XS). she's a monster with 2 different hands size! anyway, here's our gloves.. not very nice cos the club house have'nt got much variety for us to choose from..


learn about weight shifting for golf today.. shifting our body mass from left to right and right to left.. tired! swinging here and there! anyway, must have hit about 200 balls today! my poor hands!

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by the way, is AOS 's birthdat today! dear mr Anders! me and aini bring him to the pantry, sing him a birthday song and help him cut the cake so that he can distribute to everyone in the office..

here's anders's birthday cake.. though is not very pretty.. but it is the best cake! all the girls in our company love it, ok at least it is aini, sharon and mine favourite..hehe.. Secret Receipe Award winning cake - Banana Chocolate.

aini and me wif the birthday boy!


Just The Girl @ 11:54 PM


went to see aunty ah fong during lunch today. email sent by frances say that she's in critical condition. so, aini, sharon, kelly and me went to see her. her husband was there too. glad to see that she has got love ones by her side.. when u are sick and weak, it's always comforting to see your family, friends and love ones by your side..

aunty couldn't talk much and we didn't stay for long cos is not very nice to disturb her for so long. remember last time aunty always sit at the empty table opposite me and chat wif me and aini. now, the empty desk is going to be occupied by a new colleague. and aunty has been replaced by another aunty. though 2 of them uses the same coffee powder to make coffee for us, it sure taste different.

just hope aunty get well soon... pray for her..

Just The Girl @ 2:44 PM


have to stop playing the song bcos the song cause my blog to have yucky pop ups.

Just The Girl @ 9:20 AM

Wednesday, March 29, 2006

Now playing..

Jack Johnson - Better Together

There's no combination of words
I could put on the back of a postcard
No song I could sing
But I can try for your heart
Our dreams, and they are made out of real things
like a, shoebox of photographs
with sepiatone loving
Love is the answer,
at least for most of the questions in my heart
Like why are we here? and where do we go?
And how come we're so hard?
It's not always easy and
sometimes life can be deceiving
I'll tell you one thing its always better when we're together

MMM its always better when we're together
look at the stars when we're together
its always better when we're together
Yeah, its always better when we're together
And all of these moments
just might find there way into my dreams tonight
But I know that theyll be gone
when the morning light sings
and brings new things
but tomorrow night you see
that theyll be gone too
too many things I have to do
But if all of these dreams might find there way
into my day to day scene
Ill be under the impression
i was somewhere in between
With only two
Just me and you
Not so many things we got to door places we got to be
We'll Sit beneath the mango tree
its always better when we're together
Somewhere in between together
its always better when we're together
Yeah, its always better when we're together

MMmmmm MMMmmmm Mmmmmm
I believe in memories
they look so, so pretty when I sleep
Hey now, and when I wake up,
you look so pretty sleeping next to me
But there is no time,
and there is no song I could sing
and there is no, combination of words I could say
but I will still tell you one thing
We're Better together.

Just The Girl @ 11:29 PM


make an effort to go off early from office today so that i can shop for a gift. it's my sister's birthday in 2 days time! decided to get something for her by today so that i can present them to her tonight! well, cos i've golf lesson tomorrow and on friday, i think she will be out celebrating wif her friends.. so decided to give her in advance.

wanted to get a watch for her initially but couldnt find one which i think she will like.. search all the watch shops in jurong point, marina sq and city link mall.. but can't find any! finally, recall that she once mentioned that she wanna set a theme for her desk in school. well, my sister is a primary school teacher. knew that she loves precious thots! so headed to Precious thots and get a cushion, a stationary holder, notepad holder, calender and cup for her! yes, all precious thots items! guess is something she loves but can't bear to splurge on.. so this is a chance to get them for her!



lay them on her bed when i got home.. when she got home, she's delighted! hee.. i am glad!

Just The Girl @ 10:36 PM

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

am in a extremely good mood today. why? had no idea too.. but am just feeling very good.

today my dear colleagues were having a conversation. and they were quite loud.. and robert says taht he is going to ring the bell when don't know what thing happens.. so i shouted from my seat, u asking for me? and they are all laughing..

joe promised to bring his lords of the rings dvd for me tomorrow which is very kind of him to depart from his beloved collection for a couple of days or weeks? and he is in fact very efficient and offer to bring them the very next day, well provided that he come in.. ha ha.. he says he will loan them to me if i promise to return them..which i, of course will do so! but i guess the only problem is when i will ever get down to start watching the dvds and when i will finish them.. i do hope the movie will be exciting enought to stop me from falling asleep.. i am not a very big fan of such movies! but everyone are saying how good the movie is and that everyone who is a movie fan will have watched it! oh my.. i better watch it so i don't end up being a mountain tortise!

anyway, am so busy at work today.. have so much stuffs to do! yesterday, i seem to have more motivation in updating my reports.. wanna rush off from work to go view my photos, so i know i can't stay late and was keying the reports with my fingers dancing away at the keyboard at top speed. but today, i know i can afford to stay late, so was taking my own sweet time to update the reports. even went to funan during lunch to enquire about the price of a camera. the shop which i got mine from charged me $200 more! so much more!!! those money suckers! all of us in the company got our electronics stuffs from them! how could they charge us higher!! am going to call them up tomorrow when i bring my receipt into office. not only do they charge me a higher price, they also charge aini and serene a hundred bucks more for the same thing! argh.. they are so bad! so, as adviced by frances, i am going to give their boss a ring tml and ask for an explanation. maybe i can get my money back like what she got last time!

talking about money! aini and alice was showing off to me that they have got $800 extra this month b'cos of the bonus that the govt is giving out to them. and i don't have it! *ANGRY* dun have it bcos i am only 20.. well, they might show off.. but haha! i wanna tell u 2 something, youth is not something that money can buy! i am younger! hee hee! now u 2 aunties' turn to get angry! haha!

Just The Girl @ 4:33 PM

Monday, March 27, 2006

was having monday blues today... Unit, something came! was clicking away at my thousands of emails and masha walked past my desk and put a small package on my desk. Actually thought is all those invoices, or brochures, or work related stuffs.. cos masha always distribute such unhappy stuffs to me.. but before she can place it on my desk, she dropped it, so i turned around and see if she's ok. then noticed that the package is too small to hold any A4 size papers.. so i guess it is not a document. turn over to another side, it's from London! and i saw a familiar name in untidy scribblings! hee..

hee.. is Mr Sweetie! open up the package and saw a card and a box of chocolates. the card says "Live your dream". Dreaming is something special between us. because he teaches me how to dream. read from the card that he got me the chocolates while on biz trip in Paris and was caught in the rain while searching for nice chocolates.. silly him. i will like anything he send. luckily he didn't fall sick otherwise, i will feel so bad.

Now, i have the card sticked onto the wall at my workplace.. it reminds me of him. not that i need reminder though! but am happy looking at the card.

this morning surprise definitely chase my monday blues away! all thanks to Mr Alex!



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almost every monday, aini and i will choose somewhere nice to have lunch so as to start off the week with. so today our choice is the new japanese place at millenia mall. the deco is so nice , so we(aini, serene, kelly and me) had decided to lunch there since last week. the place is very beautiful with 3 japanese-inspired pavilions in it. the place is pretty small, though.
there's not much of selection.. all they have is rice! and that's what i hate most!
but can't do anything since we were already seated inside. but the food turn out to be quite nice and they are served in beautiful plates and cups. everything comes in set meal, so each of us order a set.. and the funny thing is that they served the set course by course, just like western food! except the salad is replaced by a cold tofu dish and the soup is replaced by chawamushi! haha! i think the restuarant owner must be in a state of confusion (not that famous man)! wonder if he is japanese! haha..
then our main course came..
kelly had this ..
while the other 3 kiddy us had the same thing..
tempura set meal always remind me of kiddy/children meals. wonder why? go to 10 japanese place and i am sure, in the children meals of their menu, there will be at least one tempura dish. wonder why is that so! what if my kid is allergic to prawns? then he can't eat kiddy lunch from those cute little cartoon plates? poor kid.. deprived from normal childhood dining just because he is allergic to prawns.. haha..
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went to view my make over photos today.. was suppose to view and discuss with the photographer on where to touch up.. and she overdid it.. so i told her to let it be more natural and go back to how it was. basically, she just brighten the colour of the photos and make my skin colour look even.. but while doing it, she digitally remove my birthmark(on my back) and a mole(ahem.. secret!)! i told her to undo all that! cos that's me! i mean i am born with that birthmark and that mole! if she remove all that, the person in the picture won't be me. so i make her undo all that. i mean it's not as i have a big big mole on my face! i think the birthmark and mole look ok.. at least i find the mole sexy..haha! and the birthmark is me! i am born with them! so she undo all that and i am more satisfied. so, photos will be out next monday! looking forward to it! and of cos i will post them up! cheers!

Just The Girl @ 10:23 PM

Sunday, March 26, 2006

something interesting to share...

when i went to the washroom at work on friday, a lady from another office who happen to be in the washroom keep staring at me. and i thought there's pen ink on my face.. so i looked away and see my own reflection.. but there's nothing.

then i realised that she is still looking at me.. i was thinking is she lesbian? so i looked away into the sink while washing my hands..

finally, she broke the silence.. and the conversation went like this..

Women : do u have a sister who is a teacher?
Me (surprised) : yar, my sis is a primary school teacher.
Women (in excitement) : really! where does she teach?
Me : at XXX primary school.
Woman (disappointed) : Oh, i thought is YYY school.
me smiling, shaking my head and keeping silence.
Woman : you look like a teacher too..
me still smiling and wave bye..and left the washroom.

have everyone telling me that i look like a teacher. this happen so often! how do u look and gauge a person that she is or is ot a teacher? or a nurse? or a lawyer?
if i have a teacher face, can't i work as something else beside a teacher? and how does a teacher face look like? at least, i don't think my teachers who had taught me before look similar.. and neither do i think that i look like anyone of them!

ok, maybe i will be a teacher..afterall, my mum was hoping that i will be a teacher just like my sister.. but before i really do that, i would like to try my hand in climbing the corporate ladder.. if i really fall from the ladder, maybe then i will try my hand at teaching. so that's my little back up plan...

Just The Girl @ 10:24 PM


there will be several part to my blog for today..

the highlight for today's blog will be my first entry.. here goes..

am so happy that from now on, i have another friend who blog! one more blog to read and he's a special friend.. so the fact that he's keeping a blog now will enable me to know how he feels, his prespective and views (provided he do so.)

Well, he is the sweetest guy on earth cos he always do and say the sweetest things. so he's my Chupa Chups.

am actually very surprised when he actually ask if i saw his email.. but due to unknown reasons, the mail never reached me.. and he got to know that i have not received the link to his new blog when we were on the line with each other..

so he resend it. he's so secretive about it! asked him what he send me on the unreceivable mail, he actually said is a "hi, are u feeling better?" kinda mail.. and when i finally received the message and the link, he didn't reveal in his message that the link is to his blog. so was very surprised to see that it's his newly established blog!! am so glad to see that my name was mentioned in his entries. *hee*

have added his blog to my favourites on my notebook, so that i can have quick and easy access to it. well, it is sensible to add to my favourites cos i am very sure i will be accessing to it very often!

ok, mr sweetie, do write and update more often so that i can know more about u, hope u won't mind me invading though!



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movie review
went to catch Shaggy Dog today with Raymond.. he actually drop by to return me some course notes, so i suggest that we head for the cinemas.. and it will be my treat. well, i am feeling very bad that i didn't went to his birthday party at MOS, (hee.. bcos i wanted to meet up wif maine and ashley) so thought of making up to him with movies and dinner. well, shaggy dog is a walt disney production and is more of a family movie.. so u can imagine the theatre packed with little children and their parents. but the movie was funny! haha.. is about a dad who is so obbessed with work and neglect his family. but after some adventures, he finally understand the importance of spending quality time with his family..etc..
Actually shed tears at an emotional part..luckily raymond didn't see! otherwise it will be so embrassing and he probably will make fun of mi! Ok, movie score 3 out of 5 (in my personal opinion).
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went shopping and bought 3 pairs of shoes today!!!
Yar, u see right.. i've got 2 which are in the same design, but of diff colour. is bcos i like both colours! i like the white one with the gold contrast! gold is really in the season now in Spore! and i like the black and silver one too cos i thought it will go well with lots of my clothes.. can wear it for both work and play.. is classy enough for work with the big silver ring and also of a right height(with kitten heels) to go shopping aound in.
As for the pair in biedge, i fell in love with instantly! comes in 3 colours.. and of cos i got them in the nicest shade!
bought everything back and notice that all these 3 pairs are round top shoes. should stop getting round top shoes.. should get more pointed shoes since i only have 2 pairs. anyway, am in a shopping mood today! bought also 3 skirts and a shirt. hee... work so hard, felt is worth to pamper myself.. hee.. will have bought more if raymond haven't stop me.. he was saying "enough.." haha.. like an old uncle.. but felt that is worth it cos afterall, am working everyday and hardly shop. just love to buy things with my own hard earned money as much as i want to save them.

Just The Girl @ 8:59 PM

Saturday, March 25, 2006

remember the surprise i got on white day?

Under my meticulous care, the flowers are still looking beautiful!


it has fully bloomed!

been watering it with only iced water and adding ice to them so that it can be preserved longer. Guess where i kept it? hee...

In the fridge! so that it can last longer!

heee...


Just The Girl @ 4:57 PM

Friday, March 24, 2006

Diana Ross :: Baby Love

Ooh baby love, my baby love
I need you, oh how I need you
But all you do is treat me bad
Break my heart and leave me sad
Tell me, what did I do wrong
To make you stay away so long
'Cause baby love, my baby love
Been missing ya, miss kissing ya
Instead of breaking up
Let's do some kissing and making up
Don't throw our love away
In my arms why don't you stay
Need ya, need ya
Baby love, ooh, baby love
Baby love, my baby love
Why must we seperate, my love
All of my whole life through
I never loved no one but you
Why you do me like you do
I get this need
Ooh, ooh, need to hold you
Once again, my love
Feel your warm embrace, my love
Don't throw our love away
Please don't do me this way
Not happy like I used to be
Loneliness has got the best of me
My love, my baby love
I need you, oh how I need you
Why you do me like you do
After I've been true to you
So deep in love with you
Baby, baby, ooh 'til it's hurtin' me
'Til it's hurtin' me
Ooh, baby love
Don't throw our love away
Don't throw our love away

Just The Girl @ 11:40 PM


went home early today.. not because it's friday. is because i am sick. the doctor says i have got a slight fever and had caught a chill. Chill - what the hell is that? Never heard of it.. but i am feeling very cold. feeling so cold in the office and even during lunch when i am having hot soup and hot chocolate! having warm food doesn't help at all.. i still feel cold and giddy. the headache is unbearable!

so went to the doctor after lunch. then went home early. actually slept all the way back on the cab. glad that the taxi uncle knows the way to my home. many taxi drivers always took me to corporation rise instead of corporation drive. yar, that's where i stay.

anyway, before going home, the only thing that cheer me up is this :



the cake that aini brought to my desk when i am back from the doctor. love the cake.. look so sweet.. is the kind of cakes that i like. i love sweet looking and beautiful cakes. aini knows me well.. love her.. am sorry for throwing tantrums at her the day before bcos she says the photos i took are only so so. must be mad that day! dont know what's going thru my mind that day! aini, i am sorry! i know u will read this.

Am also sorry that i can't make it to New Asia Bar tonight. said sorry to one guy and told him i have got a temperature. think he didn't quite believe? must had thought i am trying to escape and coming up wif lame excuses.. but whatever, my headache is killing me and i can't be bothered.

Have not say happy birthday to Yahya also.. cos too weak.. and he's always on the phone.. can't wait for him to finish the call, so left w/o wishing him..

anyway, i going to sleep now.. the headache is still here and i know a horrible weekend with mr sickness and mr virus await me..

sicky.

Just The Girl @ 5:35 PM


Did a quiz on what breed of dog i am!

and i am a ..

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Cocker Spaniel !!



No bones about it, you're a perky, loving Cocker Spaniel. (Think Lady from Lady and the Tramp.) Playful and energetic, you're a real people person — er, dog. People can't help but fall hook, line, and sinker for your friendly, well-rounded personality and natural charm. It's a subtle thing, though — being outgoing and flirtatious, not showy, is the name of your game. Friends, co-workers, and potential dates can't help liking you. How could they not? Your winning-yet-humble ways make you popular, admired, and a joy to be around. Woof!

Just The Girl @ 3:10 PM

Thursday, March 23, 2006


went for my first golf lesson today. was snapping away at the driving range..

Stepped foot onto Keppel Country Club and they welcome us!



and here we are at the Driving Range! got changed into our golf wear - the attire for ladies are any tee with a collar and any pants below our knee caps or just above the knee caps with track shoes. have absolutely no idea why they need us to wear something with a collar. what's the difference between a polo tee and a tee? does it help a person to swing better or look better in that posture? anyway, that's what my coach says, and that's that, no arguments. but my coach is actually quite humourous.. and he has the habit of smacking his own butt and say "Lovely, i like that!". and we were all imitating him, of cos not in front of him lar!

so here we are in our golf wear!


then we were inside the driving range and we saw this!



haha.. and u will thought that this will only appear at the train stations!

this is the machine that give out golf balls..



today's lesson is actually a very basic one, teaching us how to hold the club correctly, how to stand, how to pose and of cos, the basic safety rules of game.

basic rules :

1) on the driving range, never walk towards your friend when he is having a game. always step outside the yellow line and shout to him, ok, not shout.. maybe u can talk in a normal voice. and always walk outside the yellow line.

2) Never swing your club when u are not having any game. u might hurt the person next to you. always hold the club by the "head" when walking. cos normally, people tend to swing the club when walking.

ok, end of the rules part cos i can only remember these 2.

how to hold the clubs.. (9 kinds of clubs, today we,girls practise with the no. 7 iron, also called graphite and joe used the steel shaft).

there's actually 3 types of grip.

1) the baseball grip - with your left hand on the top and right hand at the bottom, near to each other but not overlapping.

2) the interlock - with left hand on the top and right hand on the bottom. Last finger of right hand interlocking with the left index finger. (Tiger Woods use this grip!)

3) Overlapping - left hand at the top and right hand at the bottom but fingers of the right hand overlap some fingers of the left hand.

which grip u used doesn't matters, as long as u are comfortable with the grip.

correct way of gripping the club.. left hand always on the top with the club on the last part of your fingers and on your palm. if u still dont get me, here's a picture i've made to show u.. so nice of me, right! hee.. (p/s is not my hand)

where the word "club" lies on is where the club should be.. then closed your hands and hold the club in your left hand. make sure there's 2 knuckles that can be seen by you. then the right hand, place it near your left hand with the flesh of your lower thumb touching the left hand. and your right thumb should be facing downwards.


posture..

- legs should be apart, in line with your shoulder line and your feet pointing slightly outwards around 15 degrees. can bring your protector if you like to measure.

- back or spine, whatever u want to call it should be straight.. try not to bend.

- bend your knees slightly, just a little bit.

- and preferably, your butt should be perking out. i was telling the coach i could only do one.. either i perk my butt or i bend my knees! haha.. i can't do both! sharon does it without much effort! look so easy for her to do it!

- hold your club with your left hands straight and right hand slightly bend/relax. so when u do this, your shoulders will actually be tilted to your right (with your left shoulders higher then the right).

- and if u are in the correct position, u should feel your centre of gravity at the centre of your feet.. not the toes on the back..is the CENTRE.

ok, at first we practise with a tyre.. apparently, the correct thing to practise with is called an "impact bag", but the coach says they don't have it in Singapore and a tyre serve the same purpose.

then finally, the real thing! each of us had 3 white balls. OUR PRECIOUS BALLS! was thinking like, it will be damn embrassing if my ball is still there after i swing my club. but luckily all 3 hits were done without embrassing myself! though it didnt go very far, at least i managed to hit it, ok! hee..

anyway, Coach told us to try to practise the ending pose our swing whenever we are not in heels.. and this can be done in trains or in malls while waiting for our friends.. so while waiting for cabs, i decide to practise it and ask aini to take a shot for mi so i can post it here!





end our day.. next week golf again!

Just The Girl @ 11:16 PM

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

recently, mummy bought a new toaster because the one we used to have had gone bonkers! it doesn't work at all! try putting in a slice of bread, it is still as white as ever after 30 minutes. so it had to go.. and here comes the new one.

Apparently, the new one looks the same as the previous one. but i found out there's something unique about it, in fact, the correct word is POWERFUL!

i put in a clean slice of bread and turn to 2 (as what i usually do for the previous one) and on the machine. and it became like this :

sooo black!! haha

i was pretty shock and amused by how black it turn out to be! this toaster is so powerful, man! hahaha


Just The Girl @ 10:33 PM


well, received my handphone bill today.. it has went down!! ~happy happy~

Just The Girl @ 9:59 PM



my journey wif Platou..

been 9 months since i joined Platou.. lots of changes.. from a student to stepping into the executive world, earning my own means of income and no longer getting money from daddy and mummy.

here are the pics throughout the 9 months..

when i first join Platou, we were to take a headshot of ourselves to "publish" on the company webpage. so here's mine..



below are taken in the same month when i first join.. is on kelly's birthday..

then i had my graduation ceremony.. applied leave for it.. my first leave!

up next is the company dinner at The Fullerton.

and then Platou girls went to the Quidam!

and we also had an indian BBQ for deepavali at Philip's place..

and the christmas dinner at Blu..

then we had the girls dinner at Shangri La, The line..

then 2005 is over! and here come chinese new year and we did the traditional Lo Hei thing together, just like a family!

and till now, is already my 9th month here..

time really flies...


Just The Girl @ 10:04 AM

Tuesday, March 21, 2006

wake up and first thing in the morning is to read a message on my mobile.
so happy after reading it! am sure today will be a great day!

Just The Girl @ 10:15 PM

Monday, March 20, 2006

feeling so fastruated today.

first, been loging in and out of the system so many times.. apparently, they are trying to do something to do the system, making it better.. so we have to log in and out, in and out.

2ndly, am having a very super duper bad headache.. the black coffee that i had, seems to made things worse.

3rdly, am waiting for aini for soooo long! she has gt an impt mail to send out but cant do it cos we can't log in.. so am waiting for the past 30 mins so that she can log in and send her 1 email.

been so short tempered today.. must be the stupid headache!

Just The Girl @ 8:02 PM

Sunday, March 19, 2006

had watch a short film on the web 2 days ago.. is about the relationship between legal and sexual/bg relationships.

perhaps, i don't need a lawyer.. well, at least i wouldn't want a lawyer who will pop by beside me when me and my partner are about ..ehem.. well, going to start smooching.. etc..

prehaps, i just need him to fill up an application form (yar.. like those we filled up when we apply for credit cards, loans etc ..)

and the application form will probably go like this..

A ) Personal details :-

1) Name :

2) Gender (as on birth cert) :

3) Age :

4) DOB :

5) Nationality :

6) Marital Status : Single / Married / Divorce / In the process of divorcing (pls underline where appropriate)

7) Occupation (if still pursing studies, pls skip #8 and go to #9) :

8) Name of current company :

9) Name of Institute/College/ University :

10) No of years of working :

11) Smoking ? : Smoker / Non - smoker / Social Smoker / EX- Smoker

12) Hobbies :

B) Past Experiences in love

1) Age at first love :

2) No of relationship(s) till date (if 0, please skip #3,4 and proceed to #5) :

3) How long each relationship(s) last (if not sure, give an average) :

4) Reasons for ending the relationship(s) :

5) Reasons for not having any relationship(s) :

C) Current Situation

1) Reasons for wanting to start a relationship :

2) What's your attitude towards this relationship : Fling / Trying it out (delete where appropriate)

3) Where do u see this relationship in 1 year time :


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Rider Clause
1) To be true and honest in everything said and done throughout the period of the relationship.
2) To give sufficient freedom and time to each other. (i can't stick to a person all day long! i enjoy shopping alone! enjoy time to myself and enjoy time wif my friends!)
3) To talk things over calmly when things happen. And not to go straight into argument.
4) Never leave unhappinesses/arguments/disputes overnight. Any unhappinesses should be voiced out there and then on the actual day. Never sleep on it.
5) Never shoulder problems alone. When there's any problems, be it financial, family, work, health, must always share and discuss together. (Ok, if work is P&C, understandable and excusable)
6) Must always remember to flush the toilet after use and always wash your hands after use. Always check that toilet seat is in clean conditions after use.
7) If smoking, please do not smoke in the house. It will taint the bed, sofa and all the furnitures.
8) When back from outdoors, please wash feets before stepping around the house. Never jump on the bed with dirty feets!
9) Introduce me to at least 3 of your close friends.
10) Have dinner/lunch or some time (at least 2 hours) together at least once a week. (excusable if busy with work)
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i, ____________ the undersigned, hereby declare that all the above informations are correct and accurate at the time of disclosure. I agree to be bound by the terms and conditions of the agreement as issued above.

Signature :

Date :

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Just The Girl @ 11:55 PM

Friday, March 17, 2006

after work, i went dinner with shirmaine and ashley today.

been quite some time since we met up.. miss them like mad!
we talked and talked and talked.. love talking to them.. hearing the happenings and changes in their life.
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hmmm... times really flies.. we 3 have known each other for 8 long years! we met as 3 naive 13 years old girls, making girlish talks and jokes and giggling in classes all day long.
isn't it incredible! we met as strangers, with nothing much to say to each other. from 0 topics to talk about to now, endless subjects to talk on!
am just so glad that we got to catch up with each other today!
p/s : couldn't take any photos b'cos camera send for servicing.

Just The Girl @ 11:25 PM

Thursday, March 16, 2006

today while on the train, i burst out laughing! it's sooo embrassing! feel like dying on the spot there and then..

story goes like this..

the gentlemen sitting next to me was reading the sports page of XXX newspapers..

and there's a hugh picture of a soccer star and a referee together on a field.
then there's actually bubble speech drawn on the picture.

the bubbles read as follow :

referee : who runs the most?
player : you, ref!

maybe is not so funny.. but don't know why i burst out laughing after seeing that picture! maybe is the look of that soccer star that makes me laugh aloud..

laughing aloud is no big deal to mi.. cos i love to laugh aloud.. so far, i think only aini can laugh as good as mi, or maybe we are on par..hee..

but the embrassing thing is that i was sitting alone on the train wif no one to laugh wif mi.. so i sit there trying to control my laughter.. then i cannot stand it anymore, because the guy didn't flip his papers and i keep looking at that picture..so i actually laugh out LOUD.. inviting stares..oh my god! that's so embrassing.. so i took out my mobile phone and pretend that i was laughing at the messages on my handset..

another thing that happen yesterday..

i am signing my golf lessons wif my colleagues.. and i couldnt find the right word for "golf course".. so i was saying that golf field.. and i keep saying that..
and finally, my eloquent broker said "is golf course, what field?! FIELD!"

and everyone laugh..and of cos, i laugh it off as well.. hee hee..

Just The Girl @ 10:24 PM

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

recently, i am crazy over the colour Red.

have sooo many things in red without realising it. and most imptly, i colour my hair RED.


i've gt myself a red tee from miss selfridge (their newly open branch at marina square!) , a striking pink spaga top (dun know wat makes mi actually buy it! is sooo striking!!), a red camera, my hp also gt a bit of red, red shades, colour my hair red and got a whole series of hair products in red bottles for my red coloured hair!

today one of my broker actually asked wat happened to my hair.. he said, "did someone dropped beetroots on your hair?" found it very funny! hee hee..

didnt realised that i have so many red stuffs until serene pointed it out to mi today..

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another thing which i want to write.. hee..

there's someone who is so handsome, so charming, so humourous and soooooo cute! hee.. and he actually teach mi how to dream, or remember my dream..

cos he says that everyone dream and i can't recall my dreams at all.. so here's what he showed mi...

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How to remember dreams...

The key to having a rich dream life—is to learn how to wake up slowly—so that we can prolong contact with our subconscious minds. Most of us, as soon as we awaken in the morning, allow our minds to wander off—to worrying about work, or school, or getting the kids ready—or we begin talking with our spouse or bed partner about our schedules for the day. If we do not work to recall our dreams immediately upon awakening, we will have missed a crucial opportunity. Waking up S L O W L Y means that we lie still in bed, without talking, keeping our eyes closed, and working diligently to try to remember what it was we were just dreaming about—because we always dream just before we wake up in the morning.

If we don’t immediately recall a specific image or sequence from a dream, it is important nevertheless to remain still, and allow ourselves to evaluate our feelings. Dreams always leave us with an emotional “hangover.” Did we wake up feeling tense, frustrated, happy, sad, worried? Were we looking for someone, or trying to accomplish a task?

The third step to having a rich dream life is the simplest of all. Before we go to bed at night, we want to confirm our intention to remember our dreams—and to wake up slowly the following morning. If you sleep with a partner, be sure to ask him or her to give you some “quiet time” first thing in the morning.

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well, i hope to dream of him tonight! so i am ending here now so i can think of him before dozing off.. hope it will help mi dream of him.. hmm..maybe looking at his picture b4 closing my eyes will help too? hee..


Just The Girl @ 11:51 PM

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

am sooo happy today!

when i got back to office after lunch this afternoon, i saw something lovely among the piles of papers and files i have on my desk!

Ta deng~!

went nearer and see that it indicates "Especially for You".. guess is for mi since it's on my desk.. can't be for Capt (who sits beside mi), right? so took up the card and saw a familiar name on the delivery order.. It read Alex Vogel.

So sweet of Mr Vogel! it's a gift from him for white day! didn't expect him to give such a surprise.. so was very very surprised!

love the surprise! and love the person who gave the surprise even more! *hee.. shy*

just read on the back of the card, it indicates that for longer pleasure viewing of the flowers, i have to keep them in cool places and water them regularly.. and i remember mummy saying that by adding cold water and ice, the flowers can "tahan" longer.. so decided to water my flowers wif the mineral ice water from my office! hee.. cos mineral water is better than tap water, i supposed.. and was sprinkling ice mineral water onto my lovely surprise wif my fingers.. then realised that the water is too cold!! fingers are a bit numb now.. hee.. but saw the flowers, become happy again.. fingers numb a bit never mind lar.. hee..

alex, thanks for the lovely surprise.. hee..


Just The Girl @ 2:06 PM

Monday, March 13, 2006

this is my favourite pic now!


we kneel down a little bit so that we can be captured by the camera..no tripod stand, what to do.. hee..but the effect quite good.. think very cute!


Just The Girl @ 10:49 PM


do u all know what day it is tomorrow?

it is WHITE DAY!

what's White Day?

White Day is a holiday that was created by a concentrated marketing effort in Japan. White Day is celebrated in Japan, Korea, and Taiwan on March 14, one month after Valentine's Day. On Valentine's Day, women give gifts to men; on White Day, men who received chocolate on Valentine's Day return the favor and give gifts to women. This holiday is also beginning to catch on in America.

and i received a box of chocolate today from a korean friend, Nell!

am sooo happy!!! she remember us!!! =)

chocolates all the way from korea! the first time i received a white day present!

happy white day, everyone!


Just The Girl @ 9:46 PM